Stop listening to the Judgments already
This is the post I made on Insta and Facebook but I wanted to expand on this topic more here.
On the topic of other people’s judgment and opinions and letting go of it so you can thrive…here’s a truth. I used to be so worried about posting pics of me and my pittie for fear I would turn away a potential client because they hate pit bulls. True story!!!
BUT here’s what I learned. If someone doesn’t like something about your life then they are not someone who belongs in your tribe! That is a fact. Don’t change yourself just to get a sale. Then you are not being authentic. When I made this realization and truly, TRULY, started to show my true colors, that is when my business started to thrive. That is when people started showing up asking for my help.
BUT here’s what I learned. If someone doesn’t like something about your life then they are not someone who belongs in your tribe! That is a fact. Don’t change yourself just to get a sale. Then you are not being authentic. When I made this realization and truly, TRULY, started to show my true colors, that is when my business started to thrive. That is when people started showing up asking for my help.
If someone doesn’t like me because I have a pit bull, well I feel sorry for them for being so narrow-minded. But I am me and you should be you. Your tribe will come.
Of course, there are always times that I stop and think if I should post something. But I first ask myself this one question to decide on posting when I am unsure. Am I going to hurt someone by posting this? And the answer is never yes. So I do it. Sure there are people who may disagree with me or may say something rude. But who cares? I mean REALLY, who the hell cares.
There have now been so many moms that I have helped because of me posting pictures of my dog. Yes, that’s right. Women have reached out to me because of my dog. Why? Because we have something in common and they see themselves in me. That’s a tribe. So whatever it is that you are worried about showing to the world. Stop! Just stop with the worry. Stop letting the judgment of others hold you back. Because that is all it is doing, holding you back!
Let it all go. Find YOUR tribe and love them hard!
